Lots of couples say that the passion is gone after just a couple of years into their relations. Sitting on your hands and waiting for things to improve on their own will hardly do you any good.
You need to get proactive and start taking real steps in order to improve your own situation.
What to do?
First, you can restart the sex drive by watching some porn videos. Be it Japanese pornstars, BBC, double penetration or BDSM. Watching these flicks together, you’ll find yourself fully ready for some hot action soon.
Second, try doing something new. It’s buying some hot lingerie, experimenting with threesomes or buying a flavored lubricant and going down on your gf.
Third, don’t limit your sexcapades to the bedroom.
Our brains love variety and novelty. So, doing it in the forest, in the car or somewhere in public can pump some of those positive chemicals into your blood fast.
Fourth, try flirting with your companion more. Say “sweet nothings”, sext and send them some nude pics just because. Happy relations is not just about fucking either other, but valuing and cherishing your time together.